Sunday, February 9, 2014

The Biggest Challanges For my small family

Well to start off My name is Christy and I am a single mother of 4 amazing boys. My oldest son is 10 years old and I watch him grow up through pictures thanks to his dad taking him from me when he was 2 years old. This Valentine's day will be 8 years since the last time I saw him. His name is Kaiden, my brother Robert was the one that came up with the name and I fell in love with it. Then came Samuel in 2006 he was my little savior he saved me from so much after I lost Kaiden to his dad. Samuel is 7 now and such a great little boy though he suffers from ODD (Op-positional Defiant Disorder), Anxiety and ADHD. He has to see a therapist and be on 2 different medications to balance him out totally. Then I have my little Miracle child Elijah, He is 4 almost 5 now but when he was about 2 weeks old he had gotten really sick and was admitted to the hospital for 2-3 days. Then at age 11 months he got admitted again to the hospital because he had gotten sick from Amoxicilin we found out he is allergic to Penicillin based antibiotics. Now we are having to have surgery done on him because he has a Inguinal hernia and the ER doctor forced the foreskin back on him so now he has damage to his private area as well and he has to get circumcised to fix it. Then there is my little Christopher who is 3 years old. He is a mommys boy true and since April 2013 he found his real dad and has been trying to spend time with him. I miss him when he is gone but when he is here he drives me crazy. As a single mom I try to do my best for my sons every single day and sometimes i feel like I am not doing my job. But when the hugs and kisses come from everything I do its worth everything i do for them. They are my world and I wouldn't change it for anything. Yes I also suffer from Mental Illnesses as well as Health issues myself but I deal Every single day with my back pain, Anxiety, And Severe Depression. But I am just one of Many single mothers that pull it off every single day to do whats right for our children. My means of doing it is through all the love i get from my children.
This is my Son Elijah Alexander 4 1/2 years old


This is my son Christopher Gabriel 3 years old


This is Samuel Andrew he is 7 years old


This is my son Kaiden Tan who is 10 years old
This is the son I have to watch grow up in Pictures only.